Babies and Gentleman blog
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Holding on to Hope
Confession- I cried when I wrote this. 6 weeks have elapsed since the loss of our daughter. She would have been 26 weeks now and just beginning the last trimester of pregnancy. I’ve been doing well, body healing and mentally doing ok. Until I got an email. ‘WELCOME TO YOUR THIRD TRIMESTER!’ I’m not sure…
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When traumatic events go down…
I experienced the terror 9/11. I was a senior at St. Peter’s girl’s high school in Staten Island, NY and it was a morning like any other. I always loved walking from the bus stop and looking at the beautiful Manhatten skyline. We all went to class that morning (in my case Drama). Then tragedy…
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Lessons I’ve learned from Phoebe
Today marks one month since we lost our little girl. A LOT has happened physically emotionally from this loss, for me in particular. I’m just starting to dip back into public life after going on a beautiful week-long trip to one of my favorite places in Oregon. My husband did a lot of fishing and…
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10 days later…
We recently lost our baby girl who was born prematurely. It’s still something I’m grappling through as its only been 10 days. Everyone says grief comes in waves, and it does. It’s very hard to sleep some nights because of the memories of her birth. Waking up in the mornings are difficult knowing there is…
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My little girl Phoebe passed away.
I hope this is read because I’m not sure I can ever write this down or explain it again. So I hope you read it, this may be my only explanation. Two nights ago I was 20 weeks pregnant with our first daughter, her name was Phoebe. I had no idea I was in labor…
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The Dollar Store Chronicles
What do we get when we go to the dollar store? Check it out!
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Just ONE Good thing
Today I had a pretty productive day, which for me feels like an impossibility most days. I was able to finish all my chores early and finished daunting alterations project. Toward the end of the day, I started having this niggling feeling that I missed something. The whisper of ‘you didn’t do enough for your…
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Why I teach my children to never be ashamed of who they are
I honestly was not planning on writing something like this online for a few years now. But here we are. The ugliness of racism and hatred and homegrown terrorism has made its way into the forefront of our news, homes and our hearts. It’s when children of all colors see these things and something changes…
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Opening up the digital world, with boundaries
Yes, my 2-year-old son uses my iPad, it’s pretty much his now. My son is taking his time talking. I mean he talks…all the time. I just need to decipher exactly what he’s saying. He just takes his time with his development and I love seeing him grow. When he turned 2, I started to…
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Yes, we’re having another baby!
I know I’ve been gone for a few weeks, it was all for good reason! In case you missed the news last Sunday on my IG or FB we are having our third child! Yes, we are pregnant and very excited about it. And please do t read this make a grimace face and go…